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Workshops
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"People's Beliefs with Powerful Examples"
Dinesh
Chandra's association with Eicher began when he helped
the group to implement total quality management during
the late eighties. He has facilitated several workshops
on transformational leadership for ECS. Dinesh is
President of Global Quality Associates, USA, which
specializes in organizational change brought about by
personal transformation and by renewing the strategic
planning process and developing strategy in an
integrated manner - to create shared ownership and
synergy. Despite being based in the US, Dinesh considers
hi7nseiIf a citizen of the world, accustomed as he is to
waking up in one country and sleeping in another. Here
he talks about his experience of transformational
leadership workshops. How effective is a 4-day workshop
in transforming a person's life-long and deep-rooted
beliefs? It opens people up to the possibility of change
and shakes their beliefs with powerful examples. For
instance, there is a simple exercise where people shake
hands with their eyes closed. Yet, men realize that
though they may have known each other for ten years or
more, they are unable to recognize the hand they are
shaking. They are so possessed by the brain they do no
't make full use of their other senses. They are unable
to perceive reality. And the workshop mates them realize
that there is more to reality than they have believed.
When does such a workshop work most effectively for an
individual? When he comes of his own volition, has some
desire for self-improvement and believes that change is
possible. Although sometimes it has also worked for
people who have been sent by their organizations. They
came resentfully, but nevertheless experienced a
personal transformation. How does a personal
transformation lead the individual to become a better
leader? A transformational leader is one who lives in
the moment, in the flow - as some experience it. He does
not live in the past, feeling guilty, or in the future,
worrying, most of the time. What he thinks, says and
does are all aligned - what we call manas, vachan, karam
- and therefore others trust him. He brings out the best
in himself and helps others to attain their maximum
potential. Great leaders have always had a clear
mission, which has inspired others. In these workshops
we all help each other to discover our true mission.
What is the link between change in attitude and change
in behavior? I believe everything we do is determined by
our attitude. If a man is angry inside he will not be
able to smile at the customer authentically and will
just act mechanically. But the hardest thing is to go on
pretending. When the man assumes responsibility for
himself, when he realizes he is the cause of his own
reality - a shift occurs in his attitude. Instead of
being angry inside, he will start to smile inside and
this will show in his behavior. A participant will
ultimately return to his old environment. How does the
workshop help him to persevere with his "new'
behavior? I've learnt that it is important to continue
partnerships with participants even after the workshop.
We have not always been doing that. That is why 1'rn
hoping the workshop (in August) with spouses and
business partners will help because we have modified our
program to provide transformational (T) coaching skills
to participants. This will help to create partnerships
that will help the person continue the process back home
or at work. T coaching skills enable one partner to help
the other discover his or her own truths, dark areas and
blind spots. There is no fixing. And there is no
nagging. How do the workshops help in building
communities? Communities are where people express care
for each other, where they are non judgmental. The
workshop brings out the essential human core in all of
us, so that at the end people are hugging each other in
a very natural manner. I've realized that when we go
deep within, human beings are so similar. The
realization has transformed me as a person. When we
recognize that the core is the same, it's hard not to
like everyone. In a community you don't have to put on a
facade. This is what happens at the workshop; after four
days people are able to express their real selves. Can
you recall a success story that impressed you because of
the individual's total transformation? Not total, that
is strong. But yes, there are several instances. There
was this very strong, authoritative individual at one
workshop. On the fourth day, he received several phone
calls from his wife, kids, colleagues. They all told him
his tone had changed. And he realized how much he had
changed. Recently another participant told me: 'it took
me a year to realize that 1'rn responsible for what I
have and don't have in life.
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